Thursday, March 12, 2009

Irresponsible Kid or Parent or Society?

One evening I was having coffee along with my friend in Starbucks at 35th&State just talking about our lives,studies,economy and like.We had finished our latte and then had an free Joe by showing the Starbucks preferred card.Really you get free coffee people if you don't know.At this time something happened which made me to write this blog..

Three kids came to Starbucks,a girl and two other guys.Two of them went for coffee and the other guy sat down at the end of the sofa and started covering his head and face with hoodie and I was wondering, Is this guy afraid of people in Starbucks?I thought that I will not mind his business and may be the kid is ashamed of the strangers.After some time the other kids came down and sat along with him and there was the girl getting close to him after having the coffee. After few minutes one of the guy left leaving the guy and  the girl alone in Starbucks with strangers.

After few minutes my friend was nagging me to change place and pushing me to leave the sofa.I asked him why do we want to change and by that time I happened to see the two kids, and they where together into the hoodie.I felt something uncomfortable with Indian standard in public is happening.I restrained my friend to sit down and do his work and to see if the kids do bother to think that there are strangers all around them and they would not be comfortable with their actions. But the Kids knew the Best hard truth that fellow Americans will not mind into their business and the foreign kids having coffee will not dare,so they continued their canoodling and there happen to be an Starbucks employee enjoying her coffee and no one ever dared to say No to the actions of the kids but every one smiling an awkward smile including me . I was wondering if the Cinderella story as the kids will be thinking of what they are doing will be stopped by an Evil witch. Yes the Evil witch came after some time as police man and he dared to remove the hood and telling the kids to leave which they readily agreed and left unhappy.

That left me with a big Questions,Did parents fail to teach the little girl what is right and wrong?Would some one saying pack up kids hurt them and if it did would that little hurt be Good or Bad?Is the society setting a precedent of selfishness saying do what you got to do until it does not infringe on me even if it means harming yourself I will not bother?Is everyone irresponsible by saying that it his or her wish though they know something is not good? Is there any definitions for moral or public decency?Is it culture which many Asian countries so look ahead to ape more?Is privacy and freedom given so much?

Though in this case the kids have responsibility for their ages I think their parents have more responsible and society had much of telling them to follow some public behavior which is acceptable to most even if they did not know that kids personally.This open up another Pandora's box,why do you want to push your opinion on others and bully them?Which throws things in the middle of the sea with no place to hold and make yourself drown. Is our society drowning?Just a point,I just like to think there should be a steering to ride safe in car and its same everywhere .If we think that holding the steering for long time will hurt the handle and decide to take both hand of it we are sure of the outcome.I reserve my comment,Analyze world around you and decide,kind of irresponsible still.

Wondering how old the kids, they would be around 13-14years.

Wednesday, March 04, 2009

Does God Exist???

This is one of the most asked and highly contested question all around the world . For some people god cease to exist because they think, why would the god who created him good allow his fellow human being to suffer from pain or disease?

Because they forget to think that god had given them a heart not to curse or accuse god but to show grace to the suffering person.But the sad part is most of the humans who want to say there is NO god always look to find the right scene and they never think that the right scene found is a scene they are supposed to act. What a pity?

There are some other humans who are Intellects and consider that god does not exist because there is part of  science that they have studied tell them that god does not exist because they would break the principles of science known to them, but I think they are not ready to accept that the learning has never ceased in humans and the other part of unknown science might reveal the existence of god .

The intellects in many circumstances have forgot that there are many cases which the science cannot explain though it exist within the scope to science known to them and they are not ready to accept the existence of god still, but attribute these occurrences to probability or some mathematical notation. Even here the heart is not ready to accept the scene and act, though the director(God) says to act.

For some people God does not exist because,  they see the abuses of the people who say there is God .They forget to think that even these Godly abusive people who say that there is God are same as them when they have not really understood the scene they have been asked to play. Still the God haters heart are just closed to accept facts but just ready to close their eyes and say based on the other actor ‘God does not exist’.

But there exist some humans Labeled ‘Pious’ ‘Religious’ ‘Godly’ who say that there is God and fight for it but I have questions in me to ask these people,Does your eyes and heart are open to see and accept the scene you have been placed to help other people or just for you to say God take care of them ?

I think ,me and others whoever might be cannot reject that god does not exist because god exist everywhere and all things does not ‘Just Happen’ or happen because of ‘Just Chance’.Everything is ordered even in a chaos and the human mind is not able to understand it.The cases understood in a chaos  by man can be attributed as science but he never did want  to acknowledge the person who understood the whole  of the chaotic things unknown to him as God but want to say from the chaotic things he understood there is No God or God does not exist because his eyes have not still seen the order in other chaotic things but see the whole things as just chaotic.

To finish off there are people who believe that God exist and show the world around God exist and there is no ceasing of humans who say God does not exist because many are not ready to do the part given for them to do.. If god exist how many Gods or just a God exist? It throws up another question which God Exist …